Lani's Pad Thai

My brother, Alex, is married to Lani. She's intelligent, patient, gentle and ... she can cook! She makes the BEST Pad Thai noodles. Now, we compare all the Pad Thai we eat against hers. Yes, she gave me the recipe, but it doesn't come out like HERS.

We had a heavy Christmas meal at lunch so we wanted something light for Christmas dinner. Thanks, Lani, for always willingly making this dish for the family when we ask.

My kitchen sink faces the backyard so I couldn't shoot this inside the house. I shot this on the patio facing inside the house. Lani and her sous chefs are busy by the sink

Alex and Lani sharing a laugh at the sink

Thinly sliced pork, ready for the pan

Lani seasoning the sizzling pork

The garnishes--fresh cilantro and juicy limes

More garnish--fresh green onions

The succulent shrimp and clear rice noodles are last in the pan

Our smiling chef

Crisp bean sprouts are another garnish

The delicious finished dish. Where's my plate?

I believe cooking is love made visible. Thank you, Lani

Jasmine at Airport

Jasmine and Jason had a opportunity to go on his employer-sponsored trip to Mazatlan. These photos were taken at the airport on her return trip home to Denver. I'm glad they had a great time and that we were able to see her three times this year.

Jasmine and Jason - Christmas Tree at the airport

At the departure gate. I love your smile, Jasmine

The eyes speak

Christmas Cards

Lauren: No cards? We HAVE to send Christmas cards, Mama!

Me: I don't have time. What if we just put YOUR picture on it?

Lauren: No Way! That's terrible. Like I didn't have a family. We ALL have to be in the picture. Pleeeease?

Well, here we are. I propped the tripod on the porch and shot this picture with the wreath hanging on the door. But, the wreath was barely seen. So I asked Lauren to hold it instead and the branches kept poking her. Check out her expression.

The Zenimuras Lauren and her Pop (Kirk)

Merry Christmas to all!

Thirty-Six

Norman, I can't believe
you're 36 years old.
If you're 36 ... that makes me ... ancient. Ugh.

I made this German Chocolate cake because Mom always made us one for birthdays.

Don't really know why though. But, it doesn't seem like a birthday without one.


Mom would have wanted this for you.
I wish you 50 more German Chocolate cakes.

I'm glad God put us in the same family.
You're an awesome brother to me and I love you!

Blow hard! I hope all your wishes come true!

Uncle Norman (36) & Lauren (16)
Happy Birthday!

Noodles, Rice and Seaweed

On Saturday, the girls just won their basketball game (Bullard 42,

Hoover 23) and they were hungry.

Mind you, not hamburger-and-french fries-hungry ... but, noodles, rice, and seaweed kind of hungry! Head for the best Japanese fast-food in town ... Zeni-Ya!

Hmmm. What to pick? So many good choices!

For me, nothing better on a cold winter day than a bowl of chicken ramen! Yummm!

Kirk ordered a "0" (half beef, half chicken rice bowl) with broccoli tempura. Yumm, too.

Lauren with her teammate, Kristi. Lauren had a chicken bowl and a big chicken salad. Happy tummy smiles!

We've been hanging with Cathy Hew since the summer basketball season. She's fun and easy to be with, so we'll be hanging with her for a while (unless she ditches us).

Auntie Rosie is one of the hardest workers and nicest people I know. She and daughter, Keri, keep everything running like clockwork and serve delicious fast food. Thanks, Auntie Rosie!

Bullard High School Fall Sports Awards

On Wedesday, December 10, Bullard held the Fall Sports Awards in the cafeteria. It's the culmination of the Fall sports season for the athletes;
this is the first of three sports seasons during the year. Parents are invited and the athletes are hosted with a dinner before awards are given. This season, she played JV Volleyball.

Lauren, a Junior, is a three-sport athlete so this is her seventh awards dinner at Bullard. She received a Scholar Athlete Award for academic excellence.

The Awards Dinner is a dress-up event for students

(Lauren arrived just in time for the awards from her varsity basketball practice). Check out the look ... big smile,
basketball sweats and mukluks!

Finally! This is the first time Scholar Athlete Awards are given to ALL athletes achieving a minimum of 3.5 GPA. In the past, only one award was issued per sport. It's great the school now recognizes the efforts of ALL students who excel academically in addition to the rigors of sports' practice/game schedules.

Good job, Lo! Go Bullard Knights!

At The Ingels

On Sunday evenings, we have Small Group meetings at the Ingels home. Johan & Katerina have such a warm and inviting home, so conducive to our studies and intimate discussions on issues of faith. I am so appreciative they have welcomed all of us to meet there—it is truly a calming and comfortable atmosphere in their home. Thanks so much, Johan & Katerina!

Last Sunday, I was keenly aware of the young children’s voices—talking and playing in the other room. For me, the sounds of children are especially enjoyable during the holidays.

Enjoying delicious Christmas treats and belly-warming beverages

Catching up on everyone's Christmas preparations before the study begins. See the mobile at the top of the photo?

Here's a close-up of the mobile.
In Swedish culture, Santa rides on a goat. Cool!

Happy Anniversary, Alex & Lani

Happy 7th Wedding Anniversary, Alex & Lani!

Anniveraries are always special events. They mark significant milestones in our marriage journey.

The ups and downs of life shape us. But,
Love never ends.

Lani--I'm thankful Alex brought you to us. You have been a blessing to our family since we first laid eyes on you.
I love you for making all of us better than we are.

Alex--You're my little bro. I love you simply for being.

Alex & Lani, I wish you the very best this year and all the years to come. We pray that your marriage roots continue to grow deep and strong. God bless your marriage.

Family Ties

“I want to be buried in Fresno.
That’s where you are.”



Mom died in Alameda, CA of colon cancer in 1993. She never lived in Fresno, but I’m glad she chose to be near me. In 2006, we buried Dad with Mom, and they’re together now.

We went to the cemetery to clean up their plot and put
some Christmas poinsettias this afternoon. There were lots of families doing the same thing—cleaning plots, decorating with poinsettias and little Christmas trees. It’s comforting to know that long after we pass from this mortal life, families continue to stay together and look after one another.

Kirk & Lauren fix the floral foam for the poinsettias

I've never asked Kirk to come to the cemetery with me.

He just does. I'm blessed that he honors my parents.